Friday, December 5, 2008

Maslow really knew his stuff

So I've been sick for two weeks and am finally feeling like I'm back among the living. Cyberspace has sped right along without me, and the inboxes are stuffed full.

But feeling under the weather has made me appreciate Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs all the more. Man, that guy was really on to something when he came up with his triangle. (Actually, he built on the work of Skinner and others before him, but anyway. The Hierarchy of Needs was his own creation).

So at the base of the triangle, you have your physical needs. In order to build upward and appreciate other facets of life, one first has to have those physical needs met. After the physical comes safety, then love, then self-esteem and finally self-actualization where we reach the pinnacle and find our full potential.

Mmm hmm.

Some of us are still on the lower levels, but hey, it's all part of the game, right?

So anyway, I was sick over Thanksgiving. THANKSGIVING. What a waste! So much fantastic food and I barely enjoyed it. I did force myself to eat more than one piece of pie because, really, it's pie, but the satisfaction level was dismally, depressingly low.

I also had all this time to get some writing done, work on the house, decorate like crazy--I envisioned myself singing the Happy Little Working Song a la Enchanted in a beautiful Cinderella dress. Instead, I was sick. Absolutely drained. Had time to write. Didn't care. Had time to decorate. Didn't care. Had delectable food to eat. Didn't care.

I was sunk below the bottom-most level of the hierarchy and couldn't enjoy the most basic levels of the pyramid because of it! When you don't feel good physically, it's hard to make yourself enjoy anything else. It makes me appreciate friends of mine who are currently seriously sick and undergoing procedures and treatments. Makes me appreciate my mom who's had a minor stroke and botched heart surgery, who's on so many meds she sometimes veers to the left while trying to walk in a straight line.

When I was in high school, my history teacher had a bunch of lame sayings on his wall. One of them was the old, "Health is a crown on the well person's head, but only the sick seem to see it." I'm ashamed to admit I thought of this lameness more than once while I was sick, and I vowed that once healthy, I would never again just take it as my due. Good health is a blessing, and now that I'm starting to feel it again, I'm so grateful for it.

Of course, I had preschool this morning which totally wiped me out. Which is why I figured the laundry and dishes can wait. I'd rather sit and blog. ;-)

Missed you all!


David G. Woolley said...

Welcome back trooper. We never left. We just thought you jumped or worse, decided to stop posting. Oh boy, were we wrong.

Easy Peasy? What's that all about? A secret code word for the characters hunting the jewel?

Easy peasy open says measy.

I like it. You should write more or at least eat some pies.

Welcome back.

Dave Woolley

David G. Woolley said...

And another thing. I didn't know you were going back to school. That's great. School tires me out too. All that studying. All those test. Nap time. Graham crackers. Hope you make it to kindergarten.


David G. Woolley said...

And one more thing. On the music front. I've just decided I have to mute my computer before I ever head over to the NCALLEN blog. Its a good habit.


TRIBE'S said...

I'm sorry you have been so sick, but more sorry that I didn't know anout it so I could help. I have got to get out of my own little busy world more. Everyday I am thankful for my health. It only takes one time of being really sick to appreciate when you feel good. Love you and I'n glad you feel better.

KarinB said...

Wish I could have brung you dinner. I told you to go see the doctor!!! I've missed you and the sisters too. Nobody emails or texts lately! Glad you feel better. I agree whole-heartedly about being healthy!!

Love you!

Kirk L. Shaw said...

Welcome back to the land of the living. Maybe it will cheer you up to know that I had some people in my family put your book on their Christmas wishlists without my even needing to recommend that they put it on their wishlists. :)